Happy life

Using these two concepts will put you on a path towards happiness.#life#wordpress#realtalkwithmatty



Why do we put the needs of others ahead of our own personal needs. You have to learn how to please yourself first before you can please others. Stop stressing over what other people want and be more concern with what you need from yourself to be happy. #life#realtalkwithmatty

Take ownership

You can blame people for what’s going on in your life all day long. In the end of the day you are responsible for your own actions and the choices you have made in life. Now is the time to grow up and start being mature stop blaming everyone for your problems and take ownership for your life. #life#realtalkwithmatty

Life perspective

In order to grow in life you have to change your mindset and your perspective. This will require true commitment to change from your old way of thinking. Everyone will not fully understand the sudden change of your thinking but it’s not meant for them to comprehend this is your journey and you are on a quest for a better life and a better you.

On this path for a better life sometimes you have to walk alone to reach your goals. This means leaving old habits old ways of thinking and some people behind if you are truly trying to achieve a better way of life.

Stop over thinking

why as human beings we always think that we can control every aspect of life when in actuality the only thing you can control is your self and your actions.

We will try to map out our life journey only to get discourage when it doesn’t go as planned. And that’s where the problem lies sometimes we try to control every situation even the best laid plans of mice and men often go awry it just a fact of life.

People sometimes overthink too much trying to plan and calculate every waking hour every step and that’s just simply impossible. Life will throw you some curve balls your way it’s just part of life when problems arise you have to handle them accordingly and move forward.

But you also need to have fun live a little and enjoy life to the fullest every moment every hour every minute you only get one life so make it count. Stop overthinking all the time just live.

Life is a journey

Some people think that once you find yourself that the journey is over. That’s not true once you discover who you really are the next phase of life is just beginning. Now it time to recreating yourself and take it to the next level. #realtalkwithmatty#lifeliveittothefullest

I gave it my all

If you’re in a relationship that’s just not working and you feel like you had enough don’t feel bad when you walk away from a one-sided relationship. If your partner is pushing you away and is unwilling to work out the problems that going on what else can you do but leave.

If you know that you gave it your all in the relationship there no reason to feel embarrass a shame or upset about it. The relationship can only work if both parties are willing to work towards the same common goal of staying together and fight for there love.

If your partner is not willing to fight for the relationship then maybe it’s best that the two of you separate. Why keep putting yourself through the mental anguish reminiscing of what used to be. You have to be honest with yourself and see it for what it is today not how it used to be.

Breaking up is never easy but for your own peace of mind it might be necessary. There’s no need to be in a one-sided relationship that detrimental to your physical health and mental well being the best thing you can do is end it and just walk away.

If you know that you gave 100% in the relationship and it didn’t work out then it wasn’t meant to be. You can walk away with no regrets knowing that you gave it your all remember your happiness should always come first.

Living your best life

Be careful who you call friend. You need people around you that would help you grow not bringing drama with them. Friend are supposed to inspire encourage and support you and if they’re not you might want to cancel your subscription to their drama and start living your best life. #live life to the fullest.#blog

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